ASK ME WHY SELF LOVE IS IMPORTANT?

                                  

What is Self love?

As per my opinion, Self love is all about depending upon yourself for your happiness.

"whether the answer is relatable?"Yes. Of course Self love is all about your choices in life,your thought process only involved.If you are an self loved person you need not to rely on others".

Why self love is needed?

My answer is "To live your life". To pursue happiness self love is necessary.Simply, there is no one in the world knows you more than yourself.Either good or bad. necessary or unnecessary for your life.they think you as a worthless person.

 How to love yourself?

Maybe i wasn't Buddha or Osho to preach you peoples, Before I realize or love my life,I used to think that i was mess. then i realize that imperfect is always perfect for me.

Find your happiness in the world?

There are infinity things in the world makes you happiness,

A playful squirrel

A baby laughter

Moms hug

Aroma of the coffee

Above list are not that much expensive, I guess.So love yourself unconditionally before loving someone.Just feel hugging yourself when you cry, encouraging yourself on good deeds,pampering yourself for grooming.Just do what makes yourself happy.

There question arise?why should I do those stuffs? 

  Let me tell you one example, before I realize what is self love I used to spare my time in longing for someones love,care and only their thought process involved in life. I promise you no one will be there in your life for 24*7.Then, it hurt you it will lead you to dependency, it was not their fault you must spend time for yourself.If you not an self loved person, you always need someone to take decision for your choice, you will always need some one to love you,care you. Trust me you will become a parasite.

Acceptance:In this world, everyone is unique and everyone situation is different, they live according to their wish and situation, do not fell in love with others depending upon others life.Love yourself unconditionally, break the obstacles which you hate of yourself. I dint say that never love anyone, before love someone love yourself then think that you love someone and need someone to love.

                "Its better to hold your hand yourself, when nobody was there".